It's been a long time, friends. And really, my excuses are limited as mostly I have been sitting around home doing a whole lot of nothing (aside from looking for jobs, cleaning, cooking, and laundry). But I was only really able to do those things sometimes anyways. But mentally and physically I have been preparing. And so today, I would like to take the opportunity to introduce you to someone.
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| Me, Husingband, and our little peach (13 weeks along) |
We found out about Sammy Nugget the day after mothers day. It was a big surprise as we had not been planning on having a little one for a number of years, and the first thing I did when I found out was worry. You see we had just left our jobs in Moncton and moved to Miramichi, a town with a sad economic climate, and it has been 2.5 months and I still have not found a job. Having no job will mean not having maternity leave which will make things financially very tough on us. I am going to continue to look for a job though and Dave and I are just trusting that God knows what he is doing, and believing that He will provide.
"I know what I'm doing. I have it all planned out - plans to take care of you, not abandon you, plans to give you the future you hope for" (Jeremiah 29:11 MSG)
Financially, we are in the final stages of paying off of our debt (after being set off track slightly because of a large car repair bill). But we were blessed to have the money in savings to be able to pay that bill (we wouldn't have been able to mere months ago), and despite that setback we should be debt-free by the end of this month (see my post Money$ for more information on our financial plan). This will allow us to save as much as possible so we can have a good chunk of savings for when the little one comes next January (for which I am sure we will be very thankful).
I have been fairly sick so far in the pregnancy, and that has halted almost all of my food adventures. The illness seems to be waning slightly, and so I hope (and I am sure Dave does as well) that I will be able to return to cooking and baking a lot, so look for an update on The Rookie Wife Eats soon!
I am also looking for ways to save money around the house (I have started couponing), as well as trying DIY projects, and creating a healthier environment for us and the baby. So, I should be updating the Rookie Wife at Home sometime soon as well with some of these things!
Before I sign off, I have 'stolen' the format my sister (over at Mommy Miracles) used when she was pregnant as an update to the blogging world. So, I have attached this week at the bottom. Sorry it makes this post so long!
13 weeks - La pêche
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| Don't worry, we won't throw Sammy Nugget around in real life! |
How far along?: 13 Weeks
Total weight gain/loss: At my doctor weigh-in last Wednesday (12 weeks, 6 days) I was down 10 lb total from before pregnancy. I am back to wedding weight but definitely don't feel like it!
How big is baby: Sammy Nugget is the size of a peach! (S)He doubles in size every week! I am impressed (and I am glad that I can't double in size every week!
Maternity clothes?: One day, I wore a pair of maternity jeans that Laura gave me. They made my life so much better, I was feeling mucho bloated that day. But since I am down weight, I haven't needed too much in the jean department (although I have been shying away from my skinny, low rise, uber tight American Eagle jeans). I do find I am in need of some less tight/short tank tops. They seem to be rising up a lot more!
Stretch Marks: Not yet, thank goodness.
Sleep: Some nights, I have a pretty good night sleep. I find myself waking up briefly 5-6 times in the night but that might be due to warmth more than anything else. I still have to get up and pee in the middle of the night though. I guess this is preparing me for not sleeping through the night come January!
Total weight gain/loss: At my doctor weigh-in last Wednesday (12 weeks, 6 days) I was down 10 lb total from before pregnancy. I am back to wedding weight but definitely don't feel like it!
How big is baby: Sammy Nugget is the size of a peach! (S)He doubles in size every week! I am impressed (and I am glad that I can't double in size every week!
Maternity clothes?: One day, I wore a pair of maternity jeans that Laura gave me. They made my life so much better, I was feeling mucho bloated that day. But since I am down weight, I haven't needed too much in the jean department (although I have been shying away from my skinny, low rise, uber tight American Eagle jeans). I do find I am in need of some less tight/short tank tops. They seem to be rising up a lot more!
Stretch Marks: Not yet, thank goodness.
Sleep: Some nights, I have a pretty good night sleep. I find myself waking up briefly 5-6 times in the night but that might be due to warmth more than anything else. I still have to get up and pee in the middle of the night though. I guess this is preparing me for not sleeping through the night come January!
Best moment this week: Heard Sammy Nugget's hearbeat! 160 bpm! It was so fast!
Movement: Nope, although I could see a heartbeat through my stomach this week and thought it might be baby's. Apparently it is mine. (Has anyone else ever seen their heart beating through their stomach? It is the weirdest thing).
Food cravings: None really. My cravings come and go so fast. I want it one minute, and then I eat some of it, and it is never as good as I think it is going to be and then I don't want it anymore!
Food aversions: I haven't had aversions to eating anything, but I have had aversions to cooking all meat. I am going to try to make taco's tonight for supper, it might be interesting.
Gender: I have no sweet clue! I kind of want a boy so that my names flow with birth order, but I think Dave wants a girl. We would be overjoyed with either though!
Labor signs: No, thank goodness!
Belly Button in or out? Innie
What I miss: Knowing that my stomach fat was actually stomach fat. Now I can't tell whether it is part fat/part baby or what.
What I am looking forward to: Showing! I just want to show! Despite having seen Sammy Nugget on the ultrasound and hearing his/her heartbeat I still don't believe this is real! I think showing will help with that.
Weekly wisdom: Staying active really does make you feel better!
Milestones: I have hit second trimester. For sure, I have passed 13 weeks 3 days or whatever the real 2nd trimester mark is. So that is exciting!
Movement: Nope, although I could see a heartbeat through my stomach this week and thought it might be baby's. Apparently it is mine. (Has anyone else ever seen their heart beating through their stomach? It is the weirdest thing).
Food cravings: None really. My cravings come and go so fast. I want it one minute, and then I eat some of it, and it is never as good as I think it is going to be and then I don't want it anymore!
Food aversions: I haven't had aversions to eating anything, but I have had aversions to cooking all meat. I am going to try to make taco's tonight for supper, it might be interesting.
Gender: I have no sweet clue! I kind of want a boy so that my names flow with birth order, but I think Dave wants a girl. We would be overjoyed with either though!
Labor signs: No, thank goodness!
Belly Button in or out? Innie
What I miss: Knowing that my stomach fat was actually stomach fat. Now I can't tell whether it is part fat/part baby or what.
What I am looking forward to: Showing! I just want to show! Despite having seen Sammy Nugget on the ultrasound and hearing his/her heartbeat I still don't believe this is real! I think showing will help with that.
Weekly wisdom: Staying active really does make you feel better!
Milestones: I have hit second trimester. For sure, I have passed 13 weeks 3 days or whatever the real 2nd trimester mark is. So that is exciting!
